Towards the End

Generally speaking those who are dying from a terminal or chronic illness will spend most of their final year of life at home, even though many may spend periods of time in hospital or in a hospice.
During these final months, most are cared for by relatives, friends and even neighbours, supported by healthcare professionals working within the community.
Those with cancer are usually supported by Macmillan Nurses, arranged through the GP, who will come to the patient’s home, and liaise with the local hospice.The role of a hospice is to find ways of stabilising patients so they can return home again, before they may need to be readmitted for final end-of-life care. When cancer patients chose to die at home, the hospice team do what they can to provide appropriate home-care.
Those at home suffering from chronic illness or who are becoming increasingly elderly usually rely on relatives, friends and neighbours plus support from their GP, District and Community nurses.
Home-Care 
Private nursing care is available at a cost. Home-nursing can also be obtained through care agencies funded by the NHS. But the availability of these care agencies does vary from region to region.You would need to talk to your GP about different home-care options, and who to contact.
GPs can't ethically recommend any one home, though they will discuss options - it's usually social services who decide on the level of care required.
However, these groups of patients are more likely to be admitted into hospital or into nursing homes as their health deteriorates, or when they, or their carers, can no longer cope.
Care Homes
Care homes are very different from hospices. They provide long-term care mainly for elderly residents and are either funded through the NHS or privately owned by individuals, company groups, or by large health-care organisations such as BUPA.
Care homes are regulated by the Commission for Social Care Inspection (CSCI), which is responsible for monitoring the standards of most private, voluntary and local council care services.
CSCI inspects all registered care homes to make sure they meet National Minimum Standards, which are set by the Department of Health. The CSCI only registers care homes if they meet these standards. There is more on the DirectGov website: www.direct.gov.uk
There are more than 21,500 registered care home, residential homes and nursing homes in the UK. However, because they are run as viable businesses, the quality of care can vary. It’s important to talk through any choices and decisions with your GP and/or your family. Care homes can be expensive. So considerable planning and thought may need to be put towards ways of meeting on-going fees. Sometimes, after a financial assessment, local councils can contribute towards costs.
Most care homes are staffed by qualified nurses and nursing assistants and auxiliaries, led by a matron. Support staff may not always have English as their first language. The majority of care homes follow the Government’s end-of-life care strategy, and assess the individual needs of every resident when they first arrive.
It is worth finding out as best you can before comitting yourself (or a relative) how confident any residential home is with end of life care. Many are very good if properly supported by the commmunity nursing staff.
Hospices
In 1967 Dame Cicely Saunders, at St. Christopher's Hospice in London, started the hospice movement to care for dying patients.
Some hospices receive funding from government or the NHS. However the majority hold charitable status, and rely heavily on local support and community fund-raising events. Many auxiliary hospice workers are volunteers.
The hospice philosophy centred around the right of a terminally-ill person to spend as much time as they can at home. Hospice care provides medical, social, emotional, and spiritual to support their patients.
The majority of hospice patients have cancer,although others may have chronic illnesses such as HIV/AIDS and heart and lung disease. Patients can be any age, race or hold different religious or spiritual beliefs.
Hospice nurses are usually qualified nurses who have chosen to work in hospice care. These nurses carry out traditional nursing care duties such as recording symptoms, administering medication, and working closely with doctors in order to minimize physical pain and discomfort and to make the last few weeks and days for patients as comfortable as possible.
An equally important area is to provide emotional support to those in their care, with the knowledge that they are dying. Therefore hospice nurses often spend time providing home-care, talking to relatives or liaising between families and medical professionals. They may also work alongside social workers, and other carers.
Most hospices have a day centre facility which helps them build up a rapport with patients in the early stage of their illness (and give carers a break)